Re: [問卦] reddit:台灣人沒想像中的友善 職場很可怕

在國外會更有感 海外台灣人有一定比例都是小鼻子小眼睛 爭蠅頭小利爭的面紅耳赤 一般比較怕死 愛財 比他更兇狠但不要觸法 不然就讓他社死賺不到錢就會怕了 然後很愛比工作薪水房產車英文 結果被我全部比下去 有小孩就比小孩唸那所學校 還有比台灣家裡有錢的 我還以為多有錢呢 聽聽也是笑而不語而已 然後台灣人專欺負台灣人 最歧視反而是自己人 對澳洲白人一個臉色 對台灣人一個臉色 我本來也是抱持著質疑的態度 待國外越久 跟越多各國人種做過同事 遇到跟聽到的台灣人反而證實了這些話 引述《usnavyseal (usmarine2008)》之銘言： : https://tinyurl.com/yb9z4pvj : 剛看reddit 台灣版 : https://i.imgur.com/aeJlO65.png

: 有網友問 : 是什麼讓台灣人友善 : What makes taiwanese people friendly? : 從小有被灌輸什麼人生哲學嗎 : Is there an underlying philosophy taught since young? : 網友回答 : https://i.imgur.com/v1D2Acr.png

: 作為一個外國人，台灣有很「好客」的文化，超出我待過的其他地方 : 人們很慷慨，願意花錢或花時間幫我，並拒絕回報，只表示「以後在你的國家招待我吧」 : As a foreign visitor I've found Taiwan has a strong "hospitality" culture, : more than anywhere else I've visited. People have been generous both spending : their time to help out or show me round but also spent money and refused to : let me pay them back. They just said "if I ever visit your country, you can : do the same for me". : 很多人忽略了，好客很棒，人們友善地幫你 : 在職場上完全相反，很多同事超級沒安全感 : 會盡力讓他們自己看上去比你好，沒有團隊精神 : That's the thing people seem to miss. Hospitality is great, where people are : supposed to be friendly they tend to go over and above what you get in other : places. : The corporate environment is not like that at all, completely opposite where : a lot of them are super insecure and will do everything they can them look : better than you. Not team players at : 有時候在這裡生活 精神上有很大壓力，讓我覺得這裡有很多雙面人，在公開場合很假 : 台灣人在職場和公開場合是兩種不同的經驗 : 每個國家都有「很假的人」，但我覺得台灣人在公開場合的友善過譽了 : 會讓你被第一次的職場經驗給嚇到 : And that's what makes living here mentally challenging sometimes. Made me : feel like there's a lot of two faced people, or that they were being too fake : in public. Taiwanese at work and Taiwanese in public are two totally : different experiences. : There are "fake people" and such in every country, but I feel like the : friendliness in public is so overboard that it's kind of shocking the first : time you experience the corporate environment. : https://i.imgur.com/0DWPOjx.png

: 對誰友善？菲律賓人？印尼人？黑人？白人旅客？看他們跟誰互動吧？ : Friendly to whom? Filipinos? Indonesians? Black people? White tourists? A lot : depends on who they are interacting with : https://i.imgur.com/IMW6Lrb.png

: 在熱帶國家的人通常會比較「友善」 : 但我看來？台灣人的友善很表面，只有在短時間的互動才會發生 : People in places with warmer climates tend to be more "friendly". : But in my honest opinion? Taiwanese people are only friendly on the surface : level and only if you interact with them for a short period of time. : https://i.imgur.com/guOv3ds.png

: 我覺得你的經驗不一樣，我不是白人也不是東亞人，我在這裡的時間， : 也沒遇到一般白人會有的友善 : 我沒有感受之前在希臘和哥倫比亞得到的友善 : I think your mileage may vary. I am not white and not east Asian. I haven't : felt the friendliness in my time here that, for example, a white tall blond : American would receive. My experience here doesn't approach the friendliness : I felt in places like Greece or Colombia. : 作為一個高大的金髮美國人，我會說台灣人「友好」但不會說他們「友善」 : 例如我的同事都「友好」，會幫我找東西或翻譯但他們不是我的朋友 : 且經常拒絕的我的邀約，例如晚餐、喝咖啡、去看展等等 : 每個人在這座島上都覺得我不會講中文，跟之前在中國有的大量友善交流不同 : ，在這裏不會發生 : 如果要說有什麼不同的話，這裡的人是遇過最內向的地方之一 : Even as a tall blond American although I'd call the Taiwanese "nice" I : wouldn't call them "friendly." i.e. although my coworkers are "nice" and will : help me look something up or translate a Chinese word they sure as hell : aren't my friends and have turned down every invitation to get dinner, : coffee, go to an art gallery, etc. Everyone on this island just assumes I : don't speak Mandarin so the multitude of friendly convos I'd have with : strangers like I would in China just don't happen here. If anything this has : been one of the more introverted distanced places I've ever lived or visited. : https://i.imgur.com/ZmbfQB3.png

: 有些人會直接問我「台灣人是世界上最友善的人吧？你同意嗎？」 : 但我反問他們為何沒次我過馬路時，他們企圖把我撞死， : 我只會得到「我們也不喜歡那樣，但你同意台灣人是世界最友善的吧？」 : 好像是跟遊戲中的NPC對話 : Some people I meet just ask me straight up "Taiwanese are the friendliest : people in the world right? You agree with that right?" : When I ask them if they are so friendly why do they try to mow me down when I : cross the road I get just the "Oh we don't like that either but you agree : that Taiwanese are the friendliest in the world?" : Like talking to NPC in a game. : 備註 : 大家怎麼看呢 ----- Sent from JPTT on my iPhone -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 211.30.75.7 (澳大利亞) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Gossiping/M.1681764036.A.8DE.html